Do you prefer to feel romantic and comfortable or do you need more risk and excitement? Here are some tips ;

1 Learn what their love language is - We all have different ways of expressing and receiving love but they don't always match our partner's. If you like words of affirmation, they might like touch. Find out what your languages are and that will help you be able to give them more love that the receive and appreciate which leads to more intimacy in and out the bedroom!

2 Build more emotional intimacy - If you don't connect emotionally, or feel understood by your partner, it will have a huge impact on your sex life. Instead of jumping straight to sex, focus first on reconnecting emotionally and really building trust and intimacy. This will lead to a much more fulfilling sex life!

3 Make them feel desired - Many people find their sexual desire stems from being desired, so make sure you make your partner knows how much you want them. You might think they know, but when was the last time you really looked at them, kissed them deeply and told them how beautiful they are? Just do it in a way that doesn't make them feel pressured.

4 More comfort or excitement - Find out what's the key to your partner's desire. Some of us need safety, comfort and love. Some of us need passion, excitement and risk.

5 Make sex more fun - Sex should be fun, but we often make it so serious and add too much pressure to it. Find ways to add more playfulness into your intimate time with your partner. Make them laugh, roll around together, make them feel excited to be with you and pleasure can follow!

6 Create a sensual space - You can create a special sensual space in your bedroom that reduces stress and cuts out extra distractions like noise, mess, smells and work! Try using different senses to create the perfect place.

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