What about people like me who marry just to have kids. marriage seemed secondary kids most important.
I wanted them because I wouldn’t resist holding other people’s children- I would see kids and my heart would melt . I was all over them and feared people might think I intend to kidnap theirs- child thief types .
I always thought I would not have children- was diagnosed with PCOS/PCOD . But I was lucky I guess . God knew my urges to hold my bundle of joy. After an initial miscarriage, I conceived my child.
And went berserk after his birth, I was the most mad mom- hyper .
Two kids and I still am hyper. Not a helicopter mom but irritating sometimes .
Dealing with a teenager and a nine year old- who are my life . But that doesn’t mean u Sometimes cannot like the word ‘child free’.