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And I thought my child is now passing 12th class.So l'm in a space where I should be the quintessential wife and just be by his side.So that didn't happen and of course I continued and now I am the vice principal in the school. I love what I do and it keeps me happy and busy.
After 8 December, life is public, so everybody knows what happened, everyone has their own coping mechanisms, I have mine . My focus is my daughter- to give her as normal an atmosphere and a life as would have been, had her father been around. So I pretty much didn't get time to grieve - although that we do every day, that we will do all our lives. But we celebrate him. I have to give my daughter that reason to move on happily with his memories. So we do that all the time and I try to keep her in a happier space. It is not something that heals ever or heals easily.

My message for women in general is they are mothers, even if they are not biological mothers, because it is a very natural instinct in women.We wear our heart on our sleeve and we try to make every situation look better than it is.And that is motherhood for you, everything. We are trained to kind of take things under our wings, be it like right from the age of being an older sister. So if you see yourself as an older sibling, you're already a mother there, and then you're a senior person in a school as an 8th class child to afourth class child who's not related, you're a mother there.if you see anyone being bullied, you'll step in.Because that's how we are wired as women, because women are essentially mothers.

And now coming to the mother part of it, when you have your own child, I thinkfor a woman. My husband and I thought the most important person in my life was my child.

To be continued....