Though we say some relations are unique! Beyond expectations!,Does it really happen ?



If someone says he or she has no expectation from anybody for me he or she is a great snob. We are human not Saint.We are normal human! We feel. We Love. We Care.

Don’t we all expect something from all relationship? Yes, we do…

Only too much expectations and it’s over reactions bring pain.When this expectations aren’t fulfilled, it creates a sense of unhappiness in relationship.

Our negative thoughts impose the following questions and this keep on going.

* He/She isn’t doing this and that.

* Why is he failing in his/her duties?

* I do so much for him/her, why doesn’t it get

   reciprocated?

* It is his/her responsibility but not fulfilling

   same.



The more you assume, define and analyse the more expectations you create.We assume that good friendships mean lack of conflict or a good marriage means blind faith or good parenting means having all the solutions for our children’s problems.

Every relationship has arguments. Conflict is healthy because it leads to greater understanding.but when they agree about fundamental symbols like what a home is, what love is, they can manage conflict constructively. That means they can arrive at mutual understanding and get to compromises that work.

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