Have you been to a sex-party? What was your experience like?

A sex club is a private venue where consenting adults gather to engage in sexual activities or socialize with others who share similar interests. These clubs typically have specific rules and guidelines to ensure a safe and consensual environment for their members. Remember these things;

1 Sex clubs aren't all aboul sex - Just because someone's at a sex club, doesn't mean they're up for anything. Plus, not everyone is there to have sex. Lots of clubs are about being around people who accept you and understand your lifestyle.

2 More Ihan latex - Sex clubs aren't all just latex and leather, people wear what they feel good in and what expresses their sexuality. The more authentic the better. It shouldn't feel like a costume or like you're dressing up just to get in the club, which comes back to an earlier point - please only go if it's something you're genuine about.

3 Body expression - Sex clubs are for all bodies - It can be daunting at first if you think your body doesn't look sexy enough to be at a sex party, but I've seen so much variety of people and personal, gender, style & body expressions that it encouraged me to express myself more authentically.

4 Ask. ask. ask! - Consent, consent, consent, consent. Practice asking & giving consent before going ideally. Remember to keep asking for consent as things progress with a partner. If you're kissing and want to touch somewhere new, ask again. Plus it's hot to hear what you'd both like to do next.

5 Weird people? - If you're going to a sex club just to look at 'weird people' - don't. These spaces are sacred to many people, so either embrace the people & the rules or go home. The people in sex clubs aren't sex addicts or freaks, they just appreciate an open sexual environment and why not? Sex is a beautiful thing, so why not celebrate it!

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