1 A cuddle - Intimacy and affection are for everyone. Just because you're a man doesn't mean you don't desire & deserve softness, care and connection. Asking for this doesn't make you less manly, it's a sign of self acceptance.

2 Directions - No one's body is the same. No matter if you've been with 1000s of people, asking someone how they like to be touched and adored leads to much better sex and is a sign of confidence.

3 For a sex Toy - When you know how amazing adding a toy can be, then I know that - you care about my pleasure, and you know what you're doing; There's no shame in using a toy together, and toys are for men too!

4 Desires & boundaries - What's a better way to turn things up and create a safe and open atmosphere than asking questions like: "What do you desire today? Where can I touch and where should I avoid? What type of touch do you like?" It's a game changer.

Remember - Men, you don't have to follow the script. There's not one way to be manly or attract women. You don't have to play a certain role or pretend to be something that you're not. That's what this page is about, being a place all genders can unlearn together.