Self-love is often misconstrued. Establishing boundaries and prioritizing oneself are indeed important, yet some people have distorted its essence. They use it as a justification for selfishness. Ironically, they lament their lack of support from family and friends. Relationships are reciprocal; one cannot detach oneself and disregard others while expecting care in return. There's a viral quote saying, "The one 1ft deep in water is equally suffering as the one 10ft deep in water." However, consider this: the one 10ft deep is likely beyond help. Sometimes, others' struggles outweigh our own. If you didn't extend a hand when they were struggling less, don't anticipate their support now, as they may no longer be able to offer it. Regardless of mental health challenges, one cannot excuse selfish behavior and emotional unavailability. Relationships involve two individuals, regardless of circumstances.

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The post is inspired by a Twitter post.

https://x.com/girlnumbersix/status/1770863157780639770?t=1LIyTuOL4vbP3hQcTFlp-w&s=08