I am a mother who is always available when my kids need me. They can talk to me about anything.There's no judgment passed. They tell me which of their friends is doing what, what are they doing. Their friends come and talk to me, get readings from me. They tell me about what'shappening in their lives intimately. It's a very easy space.
I traveled the world as my children were growing up. There were times I would be out, may be for month and a half- I had my mother and my husbands family for support . But by and large, they would learn to manage. Mom is out , we have to manage.
So I do believe that they have a huge sense of respect also. Like, for instance, I am 48, but I-work out like 2 hours a day. so they see that in me that I'm so fitness oriented.So that's something that sits in them. It's really who you are that is going to impact your kids.It's not something outside of that.And because I've done so many things I never tell a person that, oh, don't do this. It's not good enough, or it’s not the right thing for you.I think you go through different paths to reach a certain place, and there is really no destination.It's not like, okay, I've reached here and this is where I'm going to sit.This place right here might take me to another place.
Three years later and that's the way I'm going to continue because I believe my soul is free spirit and I don't need to be typecast or be told by somebody how I should do something for so many years and only then succeed.
My message to mothers is just don't give up on whatever your dreams might be.Just never.There's always something that takes you an inch closer to that dream.Which ever you've harbored as a child, find that one inch and work on that one inch.You may not find that attainment of that dream immediately, but you'll find something close to it .

P.s next post my professional journey