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First talks first. A lot of men complain about wearing a condom, for variety of reasons. One, it's uncomfortable. Well, that could be true but if you find your size, as many men report, you won't even feel it during sex. In fact, it's not the same as unprotected sex for women either but I guess we'd rather have a little compromising here than getting pregnant or infected. So, do the research, boys!
Another excuse they give is, "I don't fit", which I say, call bullsh*t. A condom could fit your whole feet. Tell them to choose the correct size, or no sex. Receiving partners during sex — whether anally or vaginally — are more susceptible to a variety of STI diseases, which is why a lot of men just don't care. Patriarchy, once again. "Men should be pleased, even at the woman's cost."
According to one study, 91 percent of (cis) men and only 64 percent of (cis) women orgasmed during their most recent sexual experience. During partnered sexual activity, 95% of heterosexual men typically or always orgasm, compared to only 65% of heterosexual women. It is also unrelated to their gender. During sex, at least 85 percent of women in homosexual partnerships orgasm. Total of about 5% to 10% of women have never had an orgasm – and this data, obviously, excludes women who've orgasmed by themselves and not with their male partner.
In bed, many men are selfish lovers, as evidenced by these statistics. Why is that so? Misinformation, simply selfishness and especially conditioning. They've been taught for the longest time female satisfaction does not matter and it's not worth the time, or that women can't orgasm – which is, simply, untrue. There's a percentage of women who can't but most women can and expecting them to sleep with you only so you can be satisfied and satisfying them is "too much work" is a jerk move.
What can be done? Communication. Communication is so SO important in sex. From boundaries to pleasure, you gotta start that. Education. Men, learn how to have sex. Seriously, you need to. Those stats are embarrassing. And Respect. Well, duh.