Sex becomes better when...

1. The focus is on pleasure, not on performance.

2. It is treated as play and the priority is to have fun.

3. Insecurities are normalized & treated sensitively.

4. Expectations & Pressure are removed (how long it lasts, who climaxes, in what order, how it happens. how many times, etc.).

5. All five senses are aroused and attended to.

6. Passion & intensity are interwoven with laughing & silliness.

7. You take turns being the giver and the receiver.

8. You spend time exploring what you each like & how you like it.

9. There are open conversations about preferences, desires, fantasies, expectations, and boundaries.

10. It is not treated as an expectation nor as a chore.