Future Faking: Hints of promised futures and plans that never materialize to keep you on the hook. This could be them always talking about the future but nothing in action. Always ask whether their actions resonate with their words.

Rage: Entitlement, empathy impairment, immaturity, envy, and insecurities all launched upon victims. A person with anger issues needs support, yes from an expert. donations have to endure whatever trauma ut as anger even though they forget the whole act in a few minutes. Still, they are responsible for the harm and their words.

Blameshifting: Blaming others to avoid responsibility, accountability and feeling vulnerable. They don’t accept ownership of their emotions. They typically express both negative and positive feelings and would not acknowledge their mistake.

Zero Apologising: If you go wrong you can always apologise if that is not happening, the ego of the person is highly toxic. An apology should be verbally expressed as well as a behaviour change, at least some changes should be visible.

Active addiction: Watch out for behaviour like frequent binge drinking or other substance abuse. You can help them to get over it but it is not your duty to endure it!

Decreases your self-esteem: Treating you without respect or mocking you in front of others is another red flag. You shouldn't feel less of yourself at any point, especially with your partner.

It's your choice to live, so why cant you choose to live happily and have a healthy relationship with yourself and your partner!